To Parents, From Parents

We know you want to make sure your son or daughter is in good hands at Ohio State; we want to help you know that your children are being provided with a safe, supportive, enhancing environment.

Dr. Javaune Adams-Gaston video

Dr. Javaune Adams-Gaston

Dr J, Vice President for Student Life, and a fellow parent, discusses how sororities and fraternities provides college students with a transformative and holistic developmental experience.

Wade Melnick video

Wade Melnick

Father of Ben Melnick, Wade Melnick, talks about how Ben’s fraternity transformed him into the man he is today and why you, as a fellow parent, should encourage your son or daughter to explore the option of sorority/fraternity life.

Beth Wiltberger Ullum video

Beth Wiltberger Ullum

Watch Beth, parent of Samantha Ullum, talk about how joining Kappa Delta sorority helped her daughter adjust to the Buckeye community as a Transfer Student.

A Parent's Guide to Greek Life at Ohio State

Sending a child to college can be a challenging and stressful time in a parent's life. While at Ohio State, your child will encounter many opportunities to become involved outside of their classroom experience. It is important that you, the parent, be educated about the enriching experience that your son or daughter will find by being involved in a fraternity or sorority at Ohio State.

  • What is being involved in a fraternity or sorority all about? Knowing what you have seen on television and read in the local newspaper, the reality is that those are extreme cases of fraternity and sorority life. What the media will not tell you as a parent is that there are many life-long benefits to membership in fraternities and sororities. At such a large university like Ohio State, membership in a fraternity or sorority offers a small community of friends away from home. Additionally, national research has shown that involvement in fraternities and sororities increases students' chances of graduating from college. As a life-long member of a fraternity or sorority, students are offered the opportunity to develop as leaders, serve the local community, and focus on academics, as well as their careers, by connecting with local alumni members of Greek organizations.
  • My child is considering joining a fraternity or sorority, what advice should I give them? Since joining a fraternity or sorority is a lifelong commitment, and there is an expense associated with membership, it should be a joint decision between student and parent. Consider sitting down with your son or daughter and research all of the organizations that are available to join. Utilizing local chapter and national websites are a great, convenient way to gather information. Feel free to contact students who are currently involved and their parents and ask them about their experience. In most cases, both students and parents will speak candidly about their Greek involvement.
  • As an educated consumer, consider asking the following questions before your child joins a fraternity or sorority:
    • What is expected of fraternity/sorority members?
    • What leadership opportunities are available to students as both new members and active members?
    • Does the chapter perform hands-on community service? If so, how often?

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